Have you ever been told that you are 100% responsible for everything that is in your life? That you choose what you live? That you create your own reality?
When I learned that I, indeed, am the only one responsible for my own life, I decided that I was going to take the driver's seat, and along with my internal guidance system, I would make of my life whatever I wanted it to be.
Taking control of your life means that all the actions you take in your life, are actions that you want to take.
Yes, you can inform yourself, ask for advice and opinions, and even interview experts. But eventually, you are the only one that will make the final decision to make something happen.
It could be as simple as the route to take when driving, the style of clothes you want to wear, what foods to eat, to more complicated ones like the career you want to study, the kind of job you want, the city you want to live in, the house you want to buy, how much money to spend, how much money to save... everything.
It may seem that some things are insignificant, but every decision and action you make, as small as it may seem, creates a result that affects your life.
Create a Successful Life
A successful life is a life where you feel accomplished, fulfilled and joyful for everything that you see in it. Doesn’t matter exactly what you are, or have, or do. What matters is how you feel about all of that.
I have created the flow chart below to show you the steps I have taken to create fulfilling and joyful experiences in my life.
It is a series of 6 steps in which you learn to be intentional, and in full control, of every step to create a successful life.
Here are the steps I recommend you to follow so you can begin creating your successful life:
The collection of Results in your life is what makes your reality."
Remember, the key to have results you’re happy with is to make sure that the thoughts you are thinking feel good in your gut. Thoughts that make you feel good. If they don't make you feel good, don't move to the next step. In fact, go back and choose another thought that feels better and then continue with the steps.
When you feel good about a thought, it's very likely that the ideas that come from it are also good. Therefore, the decisions made, the actions taken, and the results obtained, should also make you feel good. Make sure you keep track of your feelings at all time.
You create a successful life by selecting thoughts that make you feel good. Enjoy your creation. You are creating a life that feels good. A life that makes you feel accomplished, fulfilled and joyful.
There is nothing more freeing, to me, than knowing that my life depends on me and only me.
What about you? Now that you know how to create a successful life, do you feel empowered or terrified?